Guest Post: Friends lang kami
Friends lang kami, that’s how all relationships start off, and it’s probably the end, where it is heading to after having reached it’s “highest point” or climax. But what’s important about being friends at the start? I’m not excluding the relationships who directly entered the romance stage skipping the friend stage like in Kevin’s case. Of course there are times like that when our emotions or sometimes, or desperate needs seek to be satisfied by something or someone that we can call ours, it’s not really bad, but I cannot tell that it’s good either. But here are a few points that I find very vital in starting off with being friends.
It’s like Pyramid
It’s like a pyramid where you are trying to reach the top and need to start at the very bottom to start building on the right foundation, should I say. Being friends is just the perfect beginning into a relationship and it’s there where you get to know your future partner better, rather than regreting having entered a relationship with someone that you barely know. Don’t let your emotions drive you beyond you can handle!
Don’t let your emotions lead you.
Okay fine, you can argue with me with this case that you should not let your emotions play around with you, at times it’s good at times it’s bad, very bad. Especially when it exceeds the limits of what you should handle or slips away from your comfort zone. You should always have that balance in emotional aspects and smart thinking when looking for a partner or considering a application from a guy, when you’re a girl.
Don’t believe in words.
Okay, let’s assume that you do believe someone and account his words as true, but don’t do that to often especially not when a lot is at stake, trusting someone by word may make you feel bad in deed sooner or later, and you’ll never no for how long you’ll grief about what you have mistakenly thought as correct and true.
Don’t ride along, but walk towards your goal.
If you are thinking that that particular person you’re committed to right now could be the last one that you’ll own in your life; don’t forget to take it slow. You might run into traffic anytime soon if you hastly exceed the limits that you surely know about. If you have managed to stay at the friends level for some time, why rush with things that do not suite your age or your status? It’s bad, it’s very bad.
This is soundly random, but just the two cents of someone, who has been broken and experienced being the left over, of some joyous pleasant guy’s need.
Our Guest Writer Prefers to remain unknown, under the codename Pinky.
i’ll be reading more of your poems.. 
keep it up.. 
whoa……that was great….17 yrs old??
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all i can say is whoa!!!!!!!
keep it up…
anyway how to make my own blogsite????
hey..that was a good piece of advice..evn i strongly believe that a strong base of a romantic relationship can be built only through friendship…cheers!!
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Don’t let your emotions lead you….well,,you can’t control your emotions,,even if you want to control it,,if you are inlove,,you are inlove,,and you can’t do nothing about it,you just have to follow your heart and go for it..
I have to vehemently disagree with you. Sometimes your heart isn’t as smart and wise like your mind is. It depends on the situation and believe me, even you wouldn’t follow your heart at all times, especially when it is hurting too much already.
Relationships are an education in themselves. We learn many things…how to cope, how to give and how to overcome!
Matters of the heart are at best confusing
Words can so often obscure the feelings and the sense of music. ,