The girl going by the name Tia has a decent problem with one of her crushes, or her only crush in this case who goes by the name Ryan and is her first love, even if they are not committed but are friends only. The guy has been acting close to her, kind, sweet, caring and all other characteristics that a boyfriend might show to her girlfriend. Even if to emphasize once more, that they are friends only.

The mind bugging question/s:

Does the guy love the girl? Or doesn’t? Is the letter sender really in love with the girl? What should the sender Tia do now?

It has somehow struck me, at some point, since I can relate to the situation she’s in and I just felt like picking up the phone and dialing the number to share my thoughts on air like I have plurked about moments before I went live. And the advice of mine is as follows:

It’s still her choice, if what she believes is easier. If she thinks that letting go and moving on is the right choice, then so be it, but she should carry the thought and have in mind that she might sooner or later regret it when she’ll she the guy who’s named Ryan with some other girl and even more regret the fact that she didn’t fight for her feelings. At the other hand, she could take the extra step and let the guy know that she loves him and that she wonders if he (Ryan) is feeling something that special in return for her, but she also have in mind that she might be rejected and that it might be pretty painful as well knowing that Ryan only sees her as a friend.

You don’t experience the beauty of love if you don’t experience pain, either way it might end up positive and negative but I personally would go ahead and ask that person and confront that person and ask if that person is feeling something special too, it’s always the way that I would handle cases like this, because it would be a probably lesser but long term pain knowing that the love has just been there all the time, but you’ve never fought for it.

What would you do in Tia’s case? Let go or fight for what she feels?